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May 12, 2003 18:57 # 12034

mel * wants to know...

Need advice

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I need ur help

i think my fiends fiance' is cheating on her but i don't want to say anything until i am sure.
Some girl phoned him on hiss cell the other day and he dissapeared into another room to go talk there.

When i asked him who it was he told me it was none of my bussiness and i suppose he is right but what if it is true.

How will i tell my friend or should i just leave it to her to
figure it out herself?

love will not hurt if it is not hurt by me

May 12, 2003 22:09 # 12043

mace *** replies...

Re: Need advice

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Is leaving the room to talk to someone the only evidence you have? If so, that's pretty thin. If you had reason to believe he was cheating (not just something like talking on the phone) then you should confront him about it and give him a chance to explain before confronting your friend. If his explanation is unsatisfactory (or if it seems like he is lying or something) then politely inform your friend of your suspicions.

At least that's what I would do.

May 13, 2003 01:00 # 12046

tabber * replies...

Re: Need advice

If she is a good friend, and no one else is involved let her know.

May 13, 2003 07:16 # 12056

null throws in his two cents...

Re: Need advice

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I wouldn't say anything without hard evidence. If you're wrong (and he doesn't cheat on her), it could kill their relationship and/or your friendship.

When life hands you a lemon, that's 40% of your RDA of vitamin C taken care of.

May 13, 2003 12:28 # 12081

Jaz *** replies...

Re: Need advice

If you do anything, wait until you have gathered some real evidence. The person who phoned him could be anyone.

There's a chance that your friend's fiancé is faithful to her. Sowing mistrust now might destroy a perfectly working relationship. Do not risk that!

'Yeah, That's what Jesus would do. Jesus would bomb Afghanistan. Yeah.' - snowlion


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