Reading Love and Lifesense

My so-called love life has had its up's and down's. I've been "in love" so many times, and im not quite sure what it is anymore. I like this guy a lot, and he keeps saying that he loves me, but im not sure if he really means it. I know at this age you're not supposed to be held down with one person, but when a guy says he loves me or something along the lines of that, i melt and i fall vulnerable to a lot of bad stuff. I need several people's defenitions of love, and maybe that would help me. Thanx a bunch.

Now we speak with ruined tongues, and the words we say aren't meant for anyone. -bright eyes-

When i'm in love all i think about is them and with the good emotions i loose sleep over it and loose my apetite. I crave them and need them. Everyone else seems so small compared to them. I love the feeling but the pain it can produce is horrific.

Love to me is when the emotion is so strong you feel sick with heart ache and its scary because you realise you are in love despite what people might say.

I'm only young but i know i'm in love because i feel sick all the time and its even more special because its the first time that i have ever loved someone. The feeling is so strong that now i know things between us our different i'm frightened i will never stop loving him and never fall for anyone again.

Love is a great thing an dyet at the same time it cause so much missery. Why is that? I think its because we get so attached and most of us are scared of change so when there is a change we break down.

Hope my opinion gave you an idea of love to someone else.
Salmon
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You shouldn't believe every guy who tells you he loves you. You should, on your own, decide if a guy loves you by considering his actions. If he is always there for you, loyal and treats you kindly and isn't around just for sex, then you can come to the conclusion that he might love you. Don't just go by his words! And as far as knowing if you are in love, i think love is when the well-being and happiness of another person are just as important to you as your own.

Hey Salmon IM 23 and never ever felt this way about a girl the way I do now. She is all I think about, but she doesnt even know I'm alive, she is only a classmate, but when I first saw her in class I said to myself this is the one I will marry, and I have never ever said that before. Only one problem I know she has boyfriend and that just makes more difficult, any ideas on what to do.

Hey, ok well, to start with you must have read my post and basically that guy i loved things really didnt go the way i planned basically we got together and we were best friends and well we split up as we(he) decided that it was best just being friends and is kinda pissed as i gave my body to this guy and i feel it was awaste but i still loved him and it hurt very much any way that was a year ago now and i'm not bothered its wierd as just last night i was thnking about him and how i missed what we had together. Anyway at the moment i'm crazy about this guy who is 23 so when u popst me i was kinda like please be him please be him, but obviuosly not as he is not in any class with me. So well she wont come to you mate not cause she doesnt want to but in her situation it wouldnt be right if you like her put yourself out there let her know. I know how fcking hard it is to hear but love is one of the most silly, heart breaking thing and noone will ever be able to truely relate to what you are feeling even the other person. Love is something so personal and even though so far i have made it sound like shit i think it is one of the most amazing things. Infact it anoys me when people tell me they are in love either because they are not and they dont truely know what it feels like or because i'm totally jealous of them. I have only been in love once and although it will happen again i think the first time is always best and although people deny it they will always love that person. Any way blah blah this isnt helping you really is it..... I dont know what to say i'm only good at stating my opinion, i cant really help but if i was her i would wait for you and if she says no then you will get on with it because you have to. Remember that there is always someone better and that you will just have to wait until that some comes along its been a year and i'm still waiting. Ok now can you tell me what would you do if you were this guy i liked, basically he is 23 and we used to go to primary school and then we worked at this school together he was a teacher assistant and i was on work experience, and i have always liked him. Anyway i stopped working there after a few months and i started this child care course anbd then he started a child care course (different one) at the same college and well we text all the time and i just cant tell whether he likes me or not i think he does but i wont make the move because of fear of rejetion and if he does just want to be friends it would screw up the friendship we have now, sorry i bable so much, u probably havent even read this but if you have well i was just wondering would you want me to make the move if you liked me or would you be waitiong for the right time xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx sorry if i didnt help

believe the unbelieveable

I definitely wouldnt mind if the girl made the first ove because it takes off added pressure from the guy and from what I know about you so far I bet he will be glad to accept you in his life!

Hey stone
yea in your situation you would want the girl to make the first move, but she doesnt want to probably i mean i wouldnt make the first move if i was her so you cant just think oh i would like her to make it as its unlikely she will. Do you think she knows you like her i mean do you flirt or have you made any move what so ever that might make her think you like her. Thanks this guy i like kissed me yesterday only on the cheek but its start. So listen if you like this girl so much then you would wait, something will happen it will either be good or bad and considering she has a boyfriend probably bad but sometimes things like this work out the way you want them to. So what where do you live england? And if your 23 what class would you be in. X love salmon

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HEy Salmon I live in new york, and I m a senior in college at NYU, and IM still in doubt on what to do, I dont flirt, and by all means she doesnt know I like her, she just makes me feel numb anytime I see her let alone get close to her.

Hey salmon Ive hadnt heard from you whats up?