Reading hells_angel's journal

There are way to many people at the apartment. I needed air. Man I'm so sick of this b.s. Everyday is the same my bro wakes up about a half an hour later my bro's girlfriend comes up. It really makes me mad cuz the stupid little girl doesn't let my bro have space to be by himself and breath.

Well Dusty, Scuba, Stink, and his girlfriend are up there right now. I hope they catch hell from Tim. I'm not dealing with this if I go through with what I am thinking about. 2 jobs, I'll be working 13hrs/day and 5 hours on weekends. If I take the day shift 7am (which means I'd have to get up at 6am and make sure I'm out the door by 6:30)to 3pm at the factory and go get home around 3:20 get a shower and be out of there by 3:30 or 3:35 get something quick to eat. If I'm out of the apartment by 4 I'll be at the library around 4:15 and I could check my email and leave here around 4:40p.m. which would give me about 20mins to just relax before going to work again. Work from 5- 10pm come home around 10:15pm. And make sure I'm in bed no later than midnight. Weekends won't be so bad cuz I won't work at the factory but damn I know I'll sleep almost all weekend away. Some life I know.

Take your time don't live to fast troubles will come and they will pass

It really makes me mad cuz the stupid little girl doesn't let my bro have space to be by himself and breath

Please, don't take this as an offence because it surely is not meant to be like that... are you sure you're not a little jealous of your brother's girlfriend or of their relationship?

I mean, what if your brother liked that? I mean, if he likes her acting like that, then why does it bother you. It's his life, it's his girlfriend. If it bothered him, I am sure he would say something to her, but maybe he does like that.

Maybe you should try to get to know her better. From the posts I read (and remember) about her... well it seems to me that you like to criticize her, but that you never tried to make an effort to get to know her. I can understand that maybe it's the kind of person you feel like you don't like, but I think that you should try to bond a bit with her.

I mean, maybe this is not going to be the case, but what if your brother married her eventually? Don't you think it would be certainly negative to have such a bad relationship and to think such bad things of her? I mean, this might jeopardize your relationship with your brother, don't you think?

I am sorry, I realize that this is none of my business, but it's just that I have this impulse that makes me want to try to help other people to love each other more. And from your posts, it is clear that you do have a problem with this girl. I also think that you're older than her (am I correct?), so I think that you could try to play the mature girl's role, and try to forget about the previous problems you might have had with her, and try to start building something.
Maybe this is just impossible though. Of course I am not you, and I don't know this girl. I mean, maybe she's really the stupid asshole that you have described so far... but isn't it enough as a reason that your brother loves her?

I really hope that things can improve between you and her, but of course this depends most of all on you since you're older, and you are probably the one who is supposed to take the first step. I think that your brother might be very happy to see you and her getting along. Of course, if this is impossible, then ignore this post of mine, and act the usual way as if I hadn't mentioned anything. I also realize that if this post makes you want to try, a change can't happen in just one day, but for now I would be glad just to know that at least it made you reflect and consider the whole thing.

Un bacio è un'apostrofo rosa scritto tra le parole "ti amo".

Well on the practical side of things, I agree with andromacha. Nothing has ever been built in the heat of anger, only destroyed. And as such, you're not helping anybody get along with anyone by acting like that. If you're concern is the long term, you should just put up with it.

On the self-importance side of things, I can see where you are coming from and where your frustration derives. You are important. In a sense, everyone is important to themselves, and it is good that you don't ever do something that you don't want. Along these same notes, I could say you could go upstairs and hit her in the face if there weren't other issues to consider.

Unfortunately, this isn't the ideal world. We don't all get what we want, because slapping her in the face is violating her space. Back to the practical side of things, it really isn't a big deal. It far outweighs your discomfort, and you should try to think of someone else for a change. I understand if you are venting, and that is healthy. It is even normal to have these feelings. Just dont' lose perspective over what is important for your brother, his fiance, and your family.. not just yourself.

"If I die of a heart attack eating bacon, I'll be a happy man." -My father

I did try to bond with her a few times, but she didn't reciprocate. My main problem with the girl is how she treats my bro. A year ago she broke up with him and made a move on his best friend. It happend over the summer. Well it's summer now and it will happen again.

I would like this girl more if I didn't have to see her face everyday and I would probably love the chick if one day went by where she didn't call 15 times.

Do you know what it is like to hold your tongue and try to get along with someone when they make it so difficult for you. She gives me the aditude and for my bro's sake I shake it off but there is just some stuff you can't do. And she did it.

I'm not the only one who feels this way about her. My other bro does too. She stooped really low and got my bro's to fight with each other and this is the sick part she enjoyed it.

She even had enough nerve to throw out a mutal friend of me and my bro's. All because our friend slapped her. Which if you knew our friend really well you would know she doesn't slap anyone unless you do something really messed up. But his girlfriend sees it as though she didn't do anything wrong and she never does anything wrong.

She acts like she lives in the apartment, but she doesn't. She answers my phone, raids the fridge for food, she uses my stuff like it was her own.

I would like to think I am a good person and that I generally and genuwinely try to get along with everyone but this girl crossed every border and line with me.

Take your time don't live to fast troubles will come and they will pass

I know my bro doesn't like it but he's too whipped to say so. Me and him are close and I know when something is bugging him. I've been "PUTTING UP WITH IT" for 9 months now. She treats him like shit and he's too much of a b*tch to say so. He never says anything about it until after she goes home. But he doesn't know how to tell her "hey it's like this I need space away from you. I am losing all my friends because you don't like any of them...and this thing we had yeah it was fine for a while. I don't tell you what to do and I don't tell you who you can hang out with and I don't go to your house and throw out your friends because one of them slaps me because I deserved it. You did all that. Not me."

Taken for granted there is probably a better way to word all that, but that is the jist of what he needs to tell her. My mom doesn't know what to do with him anymore. You tell him to do something and he shrugs it off.

I just don't like seeing my bro getting treated like a punk a$$ little b*tch. He butted into my relationships before and told me if the guy I was with was good enough for me or not...I never had to worry about him before now. With all the losers I dated you would think he would learn what type not to date. You don't date someone who acts like your mother and tells you what to do all the time.

Yeah at first I thought I was jealous of my bro, but that lasted for maybe 10 seconds. I am not jealous of that at all. I like my freedom and being able to do what I want and with who I want.

I did try to get to know her, but it didn't work. I even asked her if she wanted to go a few places with me cuz she was still at the apartment even though my bro left and he wasn't going to be back for a lonnnng while. She just stayed there. All I know is you can try to get along with someone but you can't make them like you.

I just don't wanna see my bro get hurt like I seen my step-bro get hurt, and my bro get hurt and all my friends get hurt...oh hell I don't even want him to go through with what I went through.

I was seeing this guy who basically told me I was nothing without him....well when your young and dumb you believe it. But I'll tell you what I do know. I was nothing with him and I was nothing without him. I'm still just a struggling artistic soul who is trying to make a life for myself and protect everyone.

Take your time don't live to fast troubles will come and they will pass