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Jul 17, 2005 19:24 # 37242

hcygirl07 *** posts about...

Life (Re-) Evaluation

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I have this friend whose mom hates her and tried to poison her.

I have another friend whose father repeatedly raped her when he was drunk.

I have another friend whose mother was addicted to painkillers while pregnant with him, and he is now addicted to 5 different types of narcotics.

I have another friend who commit suicide because he hit his girlfriend.

I have another friend whose father disowned her because she made a few mistakes.

I have another friend who cant afford toothpaste.

I have another friend whose father is a radical racist.

I have another friend who feels that she needs to prostitute herself to feel loved.

I have another friend who overdosed on painkillers. No one knows if it was suicide or to get high.

I have another friend who feels that he needs to carry a gun to feel safe.

I have another friend who doesnt have a home to live in or a family to love him.

I have another friend who never got to take her first breath because her mom drank to much while pregnant.

I have another friend who was robbed, rapped and murdered at the age of 15. The man who did it still hasnt been caught.

Take a good long look at your life. The next time you feel you need to complain, re-evaluate the stiuation.

:Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle:

Jul 19, 2005 16:23 # 37270

NiQuE ** replies...

Re: Life (Re-) Evaluation

This post definitely makes someone re-evaluate their life...

Not to be a bag but I think I got something like this in a forwarded email once.

Of all the things that I have lost in my life, it's my mind that I miss the most.

Jul 20, 2005 01:55 # 37272

hcygirl07 *** replies...

Should some people even BE on netailve?

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I know you didnt mean to completely "bag" on my thoughts and friends and friends lives, but you definatly did. how dare you try to campare my life to a forward email! im sure you have read some BS in a forward, but dont ever completely spit on someones REAL LIFE. im very sorry if i sound like im over reacting, but that comment made me very upset. whether you meant to or not, it made me uspet. this site is here in order for people to be able to express themselves and their opinions and their hearts in a mature way. i respect you, and i hope that you will do the same for me. maybe you dont see where that was disrespectful... and if not, maybe you shouldnt be on netalive. im laying my heart out for the world to see. please dont step on it.
~Ashley~

:Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle:

Jul 20, 2005 02:23 # 37275

lindsey *** replies...

Why assume negative intentions?

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I'm positive she didn't mean to insult you. She just wanted to be sure that if you didn't write that, you'd give credit to whoever did. Quite often people will post things that they found inspirational from an email or anything at all and forget to name their source when they post it. So, she made a mistake. Everyone does. It would have been simple for you to just explain yourself and correct her, but instead you were insulted and indignant.

Sometimes, in the interest of keeping this place sane, it is best to sit back a moment and remind yourself that people are far more likely to want to help you than insult you, and respond accordingly.

Ta-da!

Jul 20, 2005 02:37 # 37276

hcygirl07 *** replies...

Re: Why assume negative intentions?

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I realize that you were just trying to help... But keep your nose out of other peoples business!

No no no just kidding! I know that i completely over reacted.... And im like really sorry. Its just... There have been so many negative things in my life. So many people putting me down that i just tend to jump on people even when theyre not trying to hurt my feelings. Im so sorry to the both of you and to everyone else who read the post. Maybe its because of the sensitivity of what i was writting about, or maybe it was because i was having a bad day.... I dont know. But either way, im sorry!

Ive had time to cool down! Thank you linds for giving me another way to look at things! And thank you nique for trying to help.

To answere your questions, those things came staight from the lives of those who are closest to me. If ever i write something from an email, book peom, etc., Ill site it.

~Ashley~

:Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle:

Jul 20, 2005 03:16 # 37280

ginsterbusch *** smiles...

Good laugh ;)

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I realize that you were just trying to help... But keep your nose out of other peoples business!

No no no just kidding! I know that i completely over reacted.... And im like really sorry.

Okay. That's some surprise. And a good laugh, too. A friendly one, of course ;)

Shows me you got brains. Although you've might probably been already welcomed by other folks to this site: feel heartily welcome! 8)

I like surprising and intelligent posts. And people who know you oughta apologize if you've over-reacted. More of this good stuff, please ;)

cu, w0lf.

Multiple exclamation marks are a sure sign for a diseased mind!

Jul 20, 2005 05:03 # 37283

hcygirl07 *** replies...

Fuef!

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Aww thanks for the welcome! Ive been on netalive for like a week, so if theres something that anyone sees that im doing "wrong".... Dont hesitate to drop me a comment! Thanks again ginsterbusch for the totally nice comment!!!
~Ashley~

:Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle:

Jul 20, 2005 16:29 # 37293

NiQuE ** replies...

Re: Should some people even BE on netailve?

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this site is here in order for people to be able to express themselves and their opinions and their hearts in a mature way.

I am sorry if I insulted you with my reply. I was just trying to express my opinion towards your post in a mature way (which, according to your reply, you completely understand).

It was definitely not my intention to insult you (thank you Lindsey). I was honest when I said that your post sounded like several forwarded emails that I have received, and I still stick to what I said; however, that doesn't mean that you didn't write it.

Your post, to me, just sounded similar to countless "re-evaluate your life" based emails that I have gotten... I just thought that I would point that out in my reply to your post.

Of all the things that I have lost in my life, it's my mind that I miss the most.

This post was edited by NiQuE on Jul 20, 2005.


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