Reading Love and Lifesense

About two monthes ago i met a girl i cant get my mind off of. I sarted hanging out with her, walking her to class, going to her water polo games, you know things to start a relationship. Then i post a comment on her myspace and the next day one of her freinds comment right above me and calls me a stalker. This was the first time anyone called me a stalker so i felt really hurt and confused. I stopped hanging out with her after that and got into two other relationships before i realised how much i still loved her but after not communicating at all with her for 3 weeks i feel really stuck. I'm afraid to talk to her because of what she might think of me. If you have read this thank you. Please i need some help.

Wow. YET ANOTHER of these recent cultural "issues" stemming from entirely electronic means.

That "myspace" can be a motherfucker. Seriously. So can this site.
I know.

My advice is to start a smear campaign of your own. Fight dirty. Don't let that shit go, or you'll really come across like one. Don't be afraid. fear is the mind killer. There is a thin line between being truly in love and stalking...that's the way it's always been.
the only difference is that people can pull that witch-hunt bullshit like calling someone a stalker.

Unless you really are a stalker, and then you deserve to be called one. However, it wouldn't be by my determination. I'm sure the person calling you that isn't qualified to make that determination on your part.
To me, in the tiny bit that I know you, you just seem confused, hurt and in love...which are pretty much interchangable.

If you REALLY, TRULY can say you love her, then she needs to know that--immediately--before that "stalker" rep actually sticks, and preceeds you to and makes a relationship with her truly a forbidden fruit.

If you can say you truly love her, then she's worth fighting for. You should let her know it if you feel that way.
You'll always regret not doing it.

I'll bet that just took 5 years off my life--but GODDAMM if it wasn't worth every second

Thank you so much, i'll try that.